


Wedding Planning Meeting
Your first planning meeting with me isn't an interview, a test, or a formal planning session where you need all the answers. Think of it more as a relaxed conversation over a cup of tea (or a glass of wine!) where I begin getting to know you both and we explore your vision for your wedding day.
What We'll Talk About
Your Love Story - Be prepared to share a little about how you met, your first impressions of one another, memorable moments, adventures you've shared and what makes your relationship unique. I love getting to know my couples, so it's a lovely time where we can relax and enjoy the process.
Your Wedding Day Vision
We'll chat about:
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Your venue and location
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The style of wedding you're planning
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The atmosphere you'd like to create
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Whether you're traditional, modern, quirky, relaxed or somewhere in between
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Any themes, colours or special ideas you have
The Ceremony Itself
We'll explore:
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Personal vows
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Readings and poems
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Music choices
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Family involvement
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Children and pets
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Symbolic rituals such as handfasting, ring warming or unity ceremonies
I have a Vow Writing guide if you would like to pen your own, as well as resources for finding the perfect poems and music, if you require some inspiration
Your Must-Haves
Tell me all about:
✔ What you absolutely want included
✔ What you'd rather avoid
✔ Any surprises you're planning
✔ Any special family circumstances to consider
What Should You Bring?
You don't need folders, spreadsheets or a detailed itinerary!
However, it can be helpful to bring:
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Ideas you've saved online
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Photos or inspiration boards
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Favourite readings or songs
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Notes about your relationship
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Questions you'd like to ask
Most importantly, bring yourselves and your excitement.
A Few Questions to Think About
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What do you love most about one another?
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What makes your relationship special?
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How do you want your guests to feel during the ceremony?
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What three words would describe your ideal wedding ceremony?
Most Importantly... Have fun with it!
I love listening to all the ideas and plans my couples bring to each meeting, and the ones that are relevant to the ceremony I create for you will be recorded, so they can be used later to make the wording of your ceremony personal, special and memorable.
